Compare your relationship with the following statements by answering true or false.

1. Actions speak louder than words. In my relationship, promises are made and kept.
2. In my relationship, we are patient with each other. We are always getting to know each other better.
3. Both my partner and I have friends outside of our relationship with whom we keep in touch.
4. I never have to worry about being physically or sexually harmed in my relationship.
5. I can be myself. My partner does not tell me how to dress or where I can go.
6. In my relationship, we do not dwell on past mistakes. We learn from them and move on.
7. My relationship is not free of problems, but we have the ability to work them out in a healthy way.
8. In my relationship we are open and honest and allow space for each other to grow.
9. In my relationship we disagree, but disagreements never turn abusive.

If you answered true to all the statements, congratulations! Your relationship is healthy.

If you answered false to any of the statements, your relationship is showing unhealthy signs and you could be in danger.

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This quiz was developed by Sojourner Family Peace Center Community Education staff. To arrange a presentation on domestic violence made to your church, school, office, workplace, group or club, please contact us at (414) 276-1911.